It’s not you, it’s me.
Sometimes advice on productivity, financial success, business growth, health, and just about everything else can get get too structured, too formulaic, too much about ‘following the steps’ as opposed to understanding what the root causes of your problems are and what the long-lasting, effective solutions are to your case.
It makes sense – catering to the lowest denominator (i.e. dumbing it down) means that you can reach more people, which means more money / more attention. But the side-effect – apart from the cookie-cutter approach not working for everyone – is that you are contributing to the global culture of ‘getting help’ instead of helping people ‘help themselves’. Self-help books are usually anything but – they are full of useful advice, yes, but it’s still someone else giving you a standard answer to a personal question.
So what to do? While the following idea isn’t new in business consulting, it’s not repeated as often in personal productivity / fitness / self help circles. Simply put:



